Online dating advice columns for teenagers
Of course, there’s the possibility that she knows, and she’s possessed and prioritizing her love for this person over her friendship with you.
It’s necessary to communicate your feelings to her, as you're feeling confused.
You feel neglected — tell her as much, and ask to see her more, alone.
You can’t bully her into hanging out with you though, you know?
You can only tell her what you need and see if she responds.
If she doesn’t want to give it — and it’s about a mutual desire, not a transaction full of guilt — then maybe you need to let that friendship roll back for now.
It doesn’t mean you have to abandon her entirely, but it does mean you should stop waiting around to be inserted into her life and start living yours separately, in such a way that she is welcome to come back to you on her own terms.